Tips for your Preschoolers First Class
These tips come from an excerpt created by one of my staff who so beautifully put into words the visions and criteria I set forth.
Starting dance class may be the first time your little one is separated from you, and at Dance Moves, our top priority is making sure both you and your child feel comfortable. For many young children, especially those around ages 2 and 3, it can take 3-4 weeks to fully understand the rules and expectations of the dance studio.
In the beginning, your child may spend the first few classes observing or participating minimally. This is completely normal. Even if they aren’t fully engaged yet, they are still learning valuable skills and gaining independence just by being in the studio.
While your child might feel safer with you in the room, it’s important to remember that other children might feel shy in your presence or believe they, too, need a parent in the room. For this reason, it’s best for you to wait outside the studio while class is in session. If your child feels apprehensive, we’re here to work with you on a case-by-case basis. Having a video system, like we do at Dance Moves, is helpful in releasing your nerves, too, as you can watch them while not being disruptive. In 21 years, we have never had success developing dancers with parents in the space. You are ultimately their main attention, so it's hard to keep them engaged when all the focus is on you.
Here are some tips to help ease the transition:
Arrive Just Before Class: Arriving too early might seem like a good idea to help your child acclimate, but sometimes, prolonging the goodbye can make them more hesitant. Plan to arrive only 2-3 minutes before class starts.
Set a Routine for Goodbyes: Establish a time for hugs, smiles, and kisses before and after class. This routine can help your child feel more secure.
Encourage Sharing: After class, ask your child to show you what they learned. Let them be the teacher and you the dancer! This reinforces their learning and builds confidence.
Bring a Comfort Item: If your child needs a little extra bravery, let them suggest something that makes them feel strong, like bringing a favorite teddy bear to class or wearing a special outfit.
Bathroom Break: Make sure to use the restroom before heading to the dance studio. This avoids interruptions during class and helps your child stay focused.
Your dancers will gain confidence, learn new skills, and form new ideas—and they’ll be so proud to share these with you. We’re here to support both you and your child through this exciting journey! After 21 years of teaching dance, we know that these tips are what makes a child feel best, and having you in the room does not allow them to grow into the confident dancers we are developing. Enjoy these milestones, and we cannot wait for you to see the joy in your child when they leave the classroom. Independent, confident, and happy!
As always, I am here to help in any way for both parents and other studio owners.
Jessica
